Connections just begin when the two individuals meet in reality, hence a diagram be raised for the separate time, date and area. Be that as it may, an extremely visit circumstance in the cutting edge world with such a significant number of techniques for correspondence individuals may get in contact with one another by methods for talk, texting, email, telephone, letters, SMS and may keep on composing or converse with one another thusly for quite a while. There is no real way to have a solitary relationship diagram for reference until the point that the two individuals really meet face to face. Furthermore, it is this outline is best in dissecting the improvement and result of the relationship.
Some things to keep in mind while delineating or electing such a chart:
Positive Moon aspects play a very important role in first meeting chart because, as they say, the first impression counts. In practice, it actually counts a lot, because usually if the first impression is bad, things don’t get further… so that people might find out further than looks and behavior. However, Moon’s aspects are not a reliable indicator of the evolution of the relationship in the long run. It just tells about how it starts. But you would certainly want it to kick off immediately. Dignified planets are planets in their own essential dignities, of which a particular importance are the domicile and the exaltation. You may have all trines and sixties in the chart, but if there’re no dignified planets, but only planets in detriment (exile, fall) things will not go as planned, for lack of motivation, energy, desire… and the relationship will brilliantly fail. Planets’ strength is so important. Any planet in detriment can be malign. As we’re talking about relationships now, Venus is of a particular interest. Venus is the love planet and we would want it to see Venus dignified in a happy relationship chart, but fact is that first meetings happen also while Venus is other signs than Taurus, Libra or Pisces and people are happy. Just remember that Venus’ position by sign and its aspects represent an indicator of the harmony and love in the relationship.
Planets in Houses
Another aspect to consider is planets’ position by house. Each house represents a field of experience for the couple and portends information on couple’s activities and interests. In an event chart investigate how the two significations (1st and 7th houses’ rulers) relate to each other by reception in the five essential dignities. Angular planets talk about the overall outside conditions influencing the relationship. Two persons I know first met with Saturn in Leo in the first house in applying square with Mars in Taurus in the 10th house. Woman’s father, a very prominent person, never accepted his daughter’s relationship with the man for political reasons. This is why in an evectional astrology chart for a first meeting, try having benefices (Venus, Jupiter) in angular houses and malefic (Saturn, Mars) in cadent houses. Getting closer to the end of the article, I’ll add that many times when it comes to plan a meeting there isn’t much room for adjusting, a few days at most, so mainly the only things you can control are the Moon’s aspects [and the Ascendant]. This is already an elementary level of evectional astrology, so useful in our everyday life. Don’t worry about “forcing destiny’s hand” with evectional astrology by electing a perfect flectional chart for an otherwise lousy relationship/compatibility. The destiny is way stronger than our weak “flectional magic”. The better term for this is probably collaboration. Just do your astrological homework trying to make a difference in your life and let the destiny take care of the result.